In this world we live in there is hurt... We can not run away from it or hide from it. Even though we feel we don't deserve it, we actually do. The one person who did not deserve it was the one who got hurt the most... He ended up getting beaten, tortured, and killed. This person took on the sins of the world, and did it out of love! This person is Jesus Christ and He lived so He could die.
We may never really understand why we have to go through so much hurt, but when you think about it... God knows why and He does everything for a reason. Now I can't say we still won't struggle with our hurts because we will.... I do everyday, but we have to trust God.... No matter how hard it is! We have to trust God's plan!